I am participating in the March Slice of Life Story Challenge. Thanks to the co-authors of Two Writing Teachers for creating this supportive community.
One of my favorite exercises from 59 Reasons to Write by Kate Messner is the “junk drawer memory” suggested by Jo Knowles. We all have those messy drawers, and the idea is to root around in one until you find an object that speaks to you in some way. Yesterday I just happened to put my fingers on my wick trimmer when I was looking for something else and I remembered…
Like me, my daughter-in-law loves candles. A few Christmases ago, while shopping for gifts, I saw wick trimmers in the candle store and picked up one for her (and one for me). I slipped it into a gift bag with a candle I thought she would like and it eventually found its way under the tree. On Christmas Eve, shortly after Brian and Jane arrived and the glow from the setting sun started to wane, I began lighting the candles in the kitchen. But first, I used my new handy-dandy wick trimmer to make sure all those wicks were just the right height!
Look, Brian, your mom has a wick trimmer! See, it’s not a crazy idea! It’s so easy to get down into the candle with a wick trimmer!
Apparently they had recently been in a candle store and Jane was interested in buying a wick trimmer. Brian felt it was a waste of money, that you could do the same thing with a scissors! But for anyone into candles, you know that’s just not true. Even though it wasn’t quite Christmas yet, I had to give her the gift right then!
I have bought many gifts for Jane – dangly earrings, soft warm sweaters, paperback books, even a snazzy modern umbrella, but I don’t think I will ever top the wick trimmer. It comes up in conversation every Christmas – part of our family lore.
Love this story of a gift remembered and family lore!
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I like that junk drawer exercise. I never heard of a wick trimmer. I learned something today.
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If you have jar candles, especially, a wick trimmer is a must!
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What a great exercise — my problem is I often can’t it open because an object is stuck. Maybe I could write it on the object that is jamming the door!! Love your slice –need to find out what a wick trimmer is –never heard of it and I love candles.
Two tips in one slice!
Clare
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Wick trimmers are really cool and make trimming wicks in candle jars so much easier! I should have added a picture, but if you google it you can see what they look like.
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You never know when a memory pops up and brings a bit of the past back to life. What a great story and gift for your daughter-in-law.
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What a delightful memory. I love the way you set them up for the gift… just perfect. Like you, I would have had to give the gift early.
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The perfect gift is giving something the person wants and would use and treasure. I am sure she thinks of you each time she uses the trimmer.
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Great gift for your daughter-in-law! Wasn’t aware there were wick trimmers. Glad your and your daughter-in-law were on the same page!
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